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This was a comment regularly made by people who heard about our relationship. There are a host of things that there was an expectation I would do but the idea that somehow I was subjugated to serve him was a notion that blew me out of the water.It was interesting to me that the us vs them mentality always existed in this example. I’ve wrestled with what this assumption meant as a reflection of me and my ability to judge character and remove myself from a bad situation. People have assumed that marrying an Arab man means he will force you to wear “that thing” (a hijab) all the time. I won’t disagree that there are many Arab/Muslim men who would hope that their wives would wear a hijab but there are also men who could care less. He and/or His Family Will Sell You Into The White Slave Trade.However, one particularity of the human species is that pair bonds are often formed without necessarily having the intention of reproduction.In modern times, emphasis on the institution of marriage, generally described as a male-female bond, has obscured pair bonds formed by same-sex and transsexual couples, and that many heterosexual couples also bond for life without offspring, or that often pairs that do have offspring separate.There is a lot of baggage that comes with marrying an Arab man.The American reference point for this part of the world is limited to what they see in movies and what is on the news.Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in humans whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship or marriage.It is a form of courtship, consisting of social activities done by the couple, either alone or with others.
This period of courtship is sometimes seen as a precursor to engagement.You can also check out the flip side in my husband’s post on things people say about American wives. He Must/Will/Does Physically abuse you because that’s normal for them.You can insert any of those words at various times in our relationship.If this doesn’t sound like a plot straight out of the movies I’m not sure what is. I know this is a real issue but to assume this based on ethnicity is absurd. However, child abductions occur by men (and women) of every race and ethnicity. I’m pretty sure he’s got his hands full with just me.Being Arabic does not predispose someone to engaging in this type of behavior. Arab Muslim men are permitted to have up to four wives in many countries. In most other countries, including Morocco, the permission of the first wife must be in place before a second marriage can occur, not to mention he must prove he can financially provide for two homes.